You don't want to be the guy that couldn't do it
right, the one she grinds her teeth at every time she has
to get in bed with you.
Face it, women are different to men. So it’s predictable
that some of the things blokes do in bed will drive women
wild, while others might just irk them a bit. Here are a
few, and what you can do about them.
Hygiene
Even if you believe your trouser furniture is clean, a
shower before bed never hurt anyone. She might even get
into hot water with you. Being clean is a basic courtesy,
whether you’ve spent the day by the pool or mopping out
the lion’s cage.
The same goes for your hands and any other part of you
that you plan to put inside her. Clean hands and
immaculately trimmed and scrubbed nails are mandatory.
Trying to be a stud
Women can be very sensitive about this: Mr Lover Man goes
through his whole seduction routine, stimulating her squishy
bits and coaxing her toward an almighty orgasm. Yet she
gets the feeling he’s making love to A Woman, rather than
to her. Try focusing on her. Calling her by her name is
good, especially if you pronounce it correctly.
Foreplay starts with the clothes on
Warming up to a sweaty, naked encounter can start hours,
even days beforehand and actually being considerate and
nice can pay dividends.
Some blokes can pull off the whole smouldering, bad-guy
image, but a lot of the time they end up glowering,
Healthcliffe-like, at themselves in the mirror of some bar.
The bottom line: don’t stand her up for lunch and then
expect to arrive at her place and be greeted by a
seductress in something lacy.
Hitting the same bases
Beware of slipping into a schedule: kiss, breasts, kiss some
more, penetration. Once a women feels you’ve fallen into a
habit, the thermostat goes off. Remind yourself of all the
other nerve endings in splendid array around her body.
Even slender girls have plenty of skin and all of it has
really useful nerve endings.
Keeping quiet
Even if you’re not the most articulate of men when you’re
in the sack, try to at least emit the occasional appreciative
sound. And if she urges you to talk to her during those
intimate moments, you’d better learn to.
Being too rough
We’ll put it down to enthusiasm, but no woman likes to have
her breasts twisted off or her vagina prodded with claw-
like fingers. You’re dealing with soft, pliable tissue here. Go
softly. If you’re doing it correctly, you’ll know, and if she
wants more pressure or roughness she’ll probably tell you.
Finishing too soon
For some men this becomes a dreaded habit that warrants
therapy. For most, it can be fixed with a little self-help.
Masturbate until you’re about to have an orgasm, then
stop. Repeat this several times before finishing off.
Regularly working at this will help to delay your reaction
and you ought to be able to control it better. Until you get
that right you can rely on the rest of your formidable
arsenal of stimulation to provide your partner with all sorts
of pleasure.
You can give her an orgasm with cunnilingus or your fingers,
or take her up to the very brink before introducing your
penis.
Lasting too long
Some men would give a kidney to have this problem, but it
can be very little fun for women who just wish the guy
would finish up.
For some men, this is a result of plenty of frenzied,
hurried masturbation, which has left the penis desensitised.
It can be cured by leaving the member alone for a few
weeks. With no masturbation, there’ll be some return of
sensitivity. After that you should masturbate gently, or by
using only your fingertips, not squeezing like you’re trying
to throttle a python.
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